David Millar

PRIVATE 1:1 C0ACHING

Private 1:1 Coaching

I help men who feel lost, stuck, or disconnected with tools and strategies for optimal living.

This is where you get clear on who you are, what you want and we build the right strategies to achieve your potential!

It's time to live, love and lead better!

PRIVATE 1:1 C0ACHING

HELPING MEN LIVE, LOVE & LEAD BETTER

David Millar

PRIVATE 1:1 C0ACHING

I help men who feel lost, stuck, or disconnected with tools and strategies for optimal living.

This is where you get clear on who you are, what you want and we build the right strategies to achieve your potential!

It's time to live, love and lead better!

PRIVATE 1:1 C0ACHING

HELPING MEN LIVE, LOVE & LEAD BETTER

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Coaching Programmes

I help men who feel lost, stuck, or disconnected with tools and strategies for optimal living.


So, if you're tired of struggling and you want to get clear on who you are, what you want and build the right strategies to achieve your potential you’re in the right place.


Here's how you can work with me:

  • Whether you’re looking for 1:1 coaching to work through 

  • Or couples coaching to strengthen your relationship 

  • Or a group journey through THE CONNECTED MAN (10 week programme for husbands who want to level up their marriage)


    Each programme is designed to get you results and support change.

1:1 C0ACHING

This is a 3, 6, or 12 month journey into healing, growth and transformation

C0UPLES C0ACHING

This is a 3, 6, or 12 month journey into who you are beneath the noise.

C0NNECTED MAN

10 week programme for husbands wanting to level up their marriage.

Coaching Programmes

Coaching Programmes

Explore the ways you can work with me below.

  • Whether you’re looking for 1:1 coaching to realign with who you are

  • Couples coaching to strengthen connection and trust,

  • or a group journey through The Connected Man (a 10 week programme for men who want to level up their marriage)


    Each programme is designed to get results and support meaningful change

Here's how you can work with me:

  • Whether you’re looking for 1:1 coaching to realign with who you are

  • Couples coaching to strengthen connection and trust,

  • or a group journey through The Connected Man (a 10 week programme for men who want to level up their marriage)


    Each programme is designed to support meaningful, lasting change.

Hi I'm David

I’m a husband, father of four, and founder of Mantra Menswork, but more than that, I’m a man who’s been through the fire myself.

For years, I looked like I had it together, a career, a family, direction. But underneath, I was burnt out, disconnected, and struggling to make sense of who I was meant to be as a man, a husband, and a father. As an ex-professional athlete in elite level Judo, and 2nd Dan black belt, I'd spent my whole life honing myself for competition and conflict but life after sport crushed me.

I hit rock bottom after becoming a dad. Therapy helped me talk, but not change. It wasn’t until I found menswork, and community that things began to shift. I started rebuilding from the inside out; finding presence, purpose, and a way to lead my life that actually felt like me.

Now, that’s the work I do with others.
I’ve spent years developing a process that combines psychology, emotional regulation, and practical strategy to help men move beyond overwhelm, overthinking, and self-doubt, into clarity, confidence, and real leadership.

My background as an ex-elite athlete, coach, and facilitator taught me discipline. My experience as a husband and father taught me compassion.
My own dark times taught me truth and today, I help men who are successful on the outside but struggling inside to reconnect with themselves, rebuild confidence, and live with purpose and integrity; in their work, relationships, and everyday life.


Because men don’t need to be fixed. They need to feel seen, supported, and challenged to become who they really are

1:1 C0ACHING

This is a 3, 6, or 12 month journey into who you are beneath the noise.

This is a 3, 6, or 12 month journey into who you are beneath the noise.

C0UPLES C0ACHING

This is a 6-month coaching journey designed to help couples repair and fall deeply in love again

This is a 6-month coaching journey designed to help couples repair and fall deeply in love again

C0NNECTED MAN

10 Weeks to take the lead and level up your marriage

10 Weeks to take the lead and level up your marriage

Rated 5/5

I didn’t realise how much I needed this until I started. David created a space where I could finally be honest with myself. I feel clearer, stronger, and more connected than I’ve felt in years.

I didn’t realise how much I needed this until I started. David created a space where I could finally be honest with myself. I feel clearer, stronger, and more connected than I’ve felt in years.

I didn’t realise how much I needed this until I started. David created a space where I could finally be honest with myself. I feel clearer, stronger, and more connected than I’ve felt in years.

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Hi I'm David

Hi I'm David

I’m a husband, father of four, coach and founder of Mantra Menswork, but more than that, I’m a man who’s been through the fire myself.

For years, I looked like I had it together, a career, a family, direction.
But underneath, I was burnt out, disconnected, and struggling to make sense of who I was meant to be as a man, a husband, and a father. As an ex-professional athlete in elite level Judo, and 3rd Dan black belt, i'd spent my whole life honing myself for competition and conflict but life after sport crushed me.


I hit rock bottom after becoming a dad. Therapy helped me talk, but not change.


It wasn’t until I found men’s work, and community that things began to shift. I started rebuilding from the inside out; finding presence, purpose, and a way to lead my life that actually felt like me. Now, that’s the work I do with others.


I’ve spent years developing a process that combines psychology, emotional regulation, and practical structure to help men move beyond overwhelm, overthinking, and self-doubt — into clarity, confidence, and real leadership.


My background as an ex-elite athlete, coach, and facilitator taught me discipline.
My experience as a husband and father taught me compassion.
My own dark times taught me truth.


Today, I help men who are successful on the outside but struggling inside to reconnect with themselves, rebuild confidence, and live with purpose and integrity; in their work, relationships, and everyday life.


Because men don’t need to be fixed.
They need to feel seen, supported, and challenged to become who they really are

What are the benefits of coaching

Clarity and Direction

My coaching helps you cut through the noise and understand what you truly want, then build a path to get there.

Accountability and Progress

With regular sessions and clear goals, you're held accountable to the things you say you want, No more drifting, avoiding, or waiting for “someday.”

Break Through Limiting Beliefs

My coaching brings awareness to the stories, patterns, and blocks that have held you back and gives you the tools to move beyond them.

Emotional Resilience

You’ll learn how to respond to life with more groundedness, less reactivity, and a deeper sense of inner strength.

Greater Self-Connection

Reconnect with your values, your purpose, and who you really are beneath the stories, projections and expectations.

Improved Relationships

Whether it’s how you show up in partnership, parenthood, or leadership coaching helps you lead with more compassion, honesty, and strength.

Confidence & Self-Belief

Learn to trust yourself again. Build the inner confidence to make decisions, set boundaries, and stand strong in who you are.

Strong Self-Leadership

No more overthinking or second guessing. Leading your life. Less chaos, more clarity. Less firefighting, more stability. Feeling like you are in charge of your life instead of reacting to it.

Deep Inner Work

Face the parts of yourself you avoid; the anger, fear, shame, insecurity, or need for control - and turn them into strength, clarity, and self-respect rather than self-sabotage.

Frenquently Asked Questions

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What happens in our sessions?

How do I know if I’m ready to invest in myself?

Do I need to be going through a crisis?

Can I pay in instalments?

Is everything completely confidential?

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Contact us

Want to find out more?

If you have any questions or want to chat about which coaching programme is right for you, I’m here to help. Book a FREE 30 minute session.

Want to find out more?

If you have any questions or want to chat about which coaching programme is right for you, I’m here to help. Book a FREE 30 minute session.